My husband and I have been married for sometime...but I feel my responsibility as a wife has been hijacked by him leaving me crippled...each time I collect my salary, I have to not only declare but hand it over to him...he will now disburse it sometimes leaving me with nothing after my transport fare and money to buy food at work...if I buy anything for our kids or myself or for any reason use out of the money for anything, there will be no peace in the house...he is also working and making good money...sad enough, I don't know exactly how much he us making and how he spends his money...BREAKING QUESTION OF THE DAY...Is this right, is this marriage or slavery???