I have been dating this guy for close to four years now...just like most relationships, we have our problems and the one that bothers me most is the fact that he just goes dead quiet for no reason...at that point, when I call him, he won't pick his calls...when I go to his house, he just sits and acts like I am invincible...I reported him to his siblings and friends and they say that is how he is that he will soon come back to his normal self...and when he does comes back, he is the most loving person I can ever imagine...but it is difficult for me because it is always as if I am starting all over again each time he comes back...BREAKING QUESTIONS OF THE DAY...If we get married is this behaviour of his not going to affect the kids...should I risk marrying him hoping he will change or should I just walk away while I still can??? Your advise will be highly appreciated.