Her parents and siblings are always welcome to stay for as long as possible with no problems...they go wherever they want to go and get whatever they ask for...they have cars at their disposal to drive about and around town..but his own parents and siblings have to take permission and be restricted to number of days they spend and sometimes they are not welcomed at all...because his wife will not be free or happy with it...BREAKING QUESTION OF THE DAY...Should the wife be allowed to dictate visits from members of her husband's families while her's come and go as they wish???